FAQ
I've new to all this!
Will you still book with me?
Yes!
I'm so honored to be your first provider experience. I am here to help you through each step, and am excited to give you a blissful first time with a professional. Please feel welcome to email me with any questions, concerns, or goals for our time together.
Why do you do screenings? What do you do with my information?
I fully understand that being asked to provide your personal information can feel nerve-wracking. Screening is done by most providers for safety reasons -- mostly to make sure that you are who you say you are. I do not save your personal details - safety and discretion are my top priorities. Once screening is completed, your details are deleted!
What about deposits?
What's the deal with that?
Similarly to screening, providers ask for deposits to ensure that clients are serious about booking and to make sure that some of the costs of our work are covered in the case of a no-show. Deposits are non-refundable and are applied to the total tribute for our time together.
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My deposit policy is $50/hr for Chicago, 50% for tours, and 100% for FMTY. These can be paid on Venmo, Bitcoin, Cash App, or in cash at a social outing.
What happens if I cancel or if I need to reschedule? Is that ok?
Things happen!
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If you need to cancel or reschedule, I ask that you do so with more than 48 hours ' notice. Reschedules with more than 48 hours may transfer deposits to a new date. Cancellations or rescheduling requests with less than 24 hours' notice require payment of the full tribute to avoid blacklisting.
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A no-call no-show or an unpaid cancellation fee will result in a permanent blacklist.
Ok, this all makes sense!
Where can I see you?
Anywhere your heart desires!
My Chicago incall is located near the loop with ample street parking - there is also a parking ramp close by if that is your preference. The building is accessible, smoke-free, and has an elevator.
I am also happy to meet you at your Chicagoland hotel room for an added outcall fee. Once we have met at least once, booking at your private residence within 30 miles of Chicago is possible with added screening.
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I'm not in Chicago.
How can I see you?
I'd love to see you outside of Chicago! I go on multiple out-of-state tours each year - most commonly Seattle, Milwaukee, Philadelphia, and New York City, but I often add other cities based on interest. Tour rates are $100/hr higher than my Chicago rates for travel fees. You can stay updated on my tours through my newsletter.
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Don't want to wait for a tour? Considering flying me to your city! Rates for FMTY are all inclusive (meaning they include travel and hotel fees), though you will still be expected to provide meals. Information on these rates can be found on my investments page. I'm so excited to spend some time together in your city!
How can I be a "good client"?
I get this question often, and my answer is always the same - be yourself! It is normal to be nervous, especially if this is your first time seeing a provider. Please know that I am most excited to get to know you as you are. Building connection for mutual pleasure is the core of who I am and what I do!
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Beyond that, being a "good client" is no different than being a good customer in general. Being respectful of my policies/boundaries and being on time for our dates is a strong baseline for our budding relationship.
Lastly, it can help to come to a booking with a bit of an idea of what you want - you do not need a long list (or a detailed script, lol!), but having some thoughts on what would feel most exciting can help me guide our session.​​​​​​​​​​​​
Can I bring you a gift?
I'm happy to just be in your arms, but a gift is always a great way to make me feel special.
I adore gifts in the form of physical media. I collect rare books, 1970s horror VHS and DVDs, body horror media from any decade, and have soft spots for doom metal, industrial, and experimental jazz vinyl. I am also fond of leather work, spiked impact toys, niche perfumes, and ethically sourced taxidermy. ​Gift cards to small leatherworker shops, Lush USA, Thistle & Spire, and Chewy (for my sweet kitten, Lugosi) are also fantastic options.
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For other items, you can find my wishlist here. I update my wishlist once or twice a month!